Dreams of princesses and princesses

Each stage of life has characteristics specific future projects. Each sex and culture also has its own dreams, goals and objectives for success.

In recent weeks, following the royal wedding between Prince William and Kate Middleton, our society has been plunged back into the "world of princesses." In particular, in the case of women, have been exposed to this social phenomenon that can influence modeling in certain cases their personal goals and dreams.

Girls in middle childhood, between 8 and 12, often have magical thinking. Based on this thought, house closed worlds, perfect where there is only pleasure, enjoyment and expansion of the ego. The external manifestations are the reference objects: pink, sparkles, "barbies" unattainable idealization of beauty and princesses costumes successful fashion icons. His vital projections usually go for a very specific logic and a quick and immediate mental style, without further investigation or speculation about the idealized world.

In adolescents, between 13 and 17 years, dominates a certain defiance, which passes through the identification of offenders models. However, in relation to the "world of princesses," what stands out is the longing for wealth and satiation object. The thought is more abstract and enables them to assess the advantages and disadvantages of such a world of fairies. Enculturizadas in consumer societies, sometimes see a royal wedding or an engagement to an idol as the solution to all your vital existence. The monoanálisis one of its variables (possession), null and inability to value the disadvantages become high status.

Young women between 18 and 30 years may generate momentary frustration in their lives, valuing them as inferior and great disadvantages compared to the model presented. They wonder what external or internal conditions will the candidate and that they have not been able to develop. Where is the basis of their success?. Physically, socially, academically, or in the wheel of chance. These fleeting thoughts are located in planes of fantasy and dangerously them away from their reality and their life voyage. You can get "hooked" to a whole visual encourage stage: costumes, floats, rugs and crowns.

Finally, adult women, 30 to 55 years, review your life (sometimes with nostalgia), often pondering what might have been but was not. Perform an inner balance, perhaps too fast and fleeting at times, resulting bittersweet about her life and choices. Sometimes enter their territories fantasy life in an environment as possible idealized, of what might have been its future, including their appearance in this magical world and dreamed. Each model or each pair allowed a personal longing live an experience of themselves in the environment displayed. These models are chosen and characters based on the personality of the observer.

Older women, in ways of old age, have turned sour and critical reality: aging observed and disadvantages of the characters in this idealized world and become more human and closer to the reality of them. For example, look at the age of the Queen of England, his gray hair, his gait tired, similar to them. See how designers or surgeons do not invalidate the passage of time or queens Camila European wilted. This very interesting full circle of reality, and critically hold and enjoy their own existence, its fair value against the hypothetical real world projected on the TV.

In all vicarious learning takes place. That is, are set against the model, attention is paid to him, to imitate the behavior retina and then deferred shown. Where: personal celebrations, in acts of social gathering where we like to be placed in a preferred status.